I would say a more accurate statement is that Spike loves more SELFISHLY than any other character on the show. Only with DRU would I say that he acts out of what I would call love. Because only with Dru does he consistently put someone else before himself. Love, in my opinion, must include some element of wanting what is best for the person you claim to feel the emotion for.
I'd agree with this, but with the caveat that Spike is is of the delusion that his love is epic and generous, when it is actually petty and selfish - and I think that is a delusion that often sways too many people. Some of the writers included.
When Spike tries to "pull Buffy into the dark", to pressure her about coming open, and forces himself upon her - he's genuinely convinced himself that this is the best thing for Buffy.
Not because it is, but because at heart he feels that if he wants it badly enough it must be right. Spike confuses intense need with true love, and having actually watched S7 I'm not certain he ever understands that.
The whole thing is very disappointing, and unsatisfying, especially when I think about how well-written the show (and the relationships on the show) used to be.
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I'd agree with this, but with the caveat that Spike is is of the delusion that his love is epic and generous, when it is actually petty and selfish - and I think that is a delusion that often sways too many people. Some of the writers included.
When Spike tries to "pull Buffy into the dark", to pressure her about coming open, and forces himself upon her - he's genuinely convinced himself that this is the best thing for Buffy.
Not because it is, but because at heart he feels that if he wants it badly enough it must be right. Spike confuses intense need with true love, and having actually watched S7 I'm not certain he ever understands that.
The whole thing is very disappointing, and unsatisfying, especially when I think about how well-written the show (and the relationships on the show) used to be.
I absolutely agree.